Girls vs. Grown Women

Girls leave their schedule wide-open and wait for a guy to call and make plans. Grown women make their own plans and nicely tell the guy to get in where he fits ********** Girls want to control the man in their life. Grown women know that if he's truly hers, he doesn't need controlling. ********** Girls check you for not calling them. Grown women are too busy to realize you hadn't. ********** Girls are afraid to be alone. Grown women revel in it-using it as a time for personal growth. ********** Girls ignore the good guys. Grown women ignore the bad guys. ********** Girls make you come home. Grown women make you want to come home. ********** Girls worry about not being pretty and/or good enough for their man. Grown women know that they are pretty and/or good enough for any man. ********** Girls try to monopolize all their man's time ( I.e., don't want him hanging with his friends). Grown women realize that a lil' bit of space makes the 'together time' even more special-and goes to kick it with her own friends! ********** Girls think a guy crying is weak. Grown women offer their shoulder and a tissue. ********** Girls want to be spoiled and 'tell' their man so. Grown women 'show' him and make him comfortable enough to reciprocate without fear of losing his 'manhood'. ********** Girls get hurt by one man and make all men pay for it. Grown women know that that was just one man. ********** Girls fall in love and chase aimlessly after the object of their affection, ignoring all 'signs'. Grown women know that sometimes the one you love, don't always love you back-and move on, without bitterness. ********** Girls will read this and get an attitude. Grown women will read this and pass it on to other Grown women and their male friends".

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